"Sex positivity to me is basically what it sounds like. People put so much shame around sex. No one wants to ask questions; no one wants to admit they’re doing it; no want wants to admit that they want to do it. This sense of shame leads to a lack of information. Sex becomes a mystery, something that only happens with the lights off when no one is around. When experienced safely and with a healthy attitude sex can be something pleasurable and beautiful. For me, sex positivity is throwing out those shameful notions about sex and realizing that sex is an important part of the human experience and is capable of making all of our lives more complete. With a positive attitude about sex comes a healthy desire to learn about it and the more you learn in an honest forum, the more sex can positively affect your life. Sex is part of life and should be a good part."